Melbourne or Sydney? Which Aussie City Is Actually for You?

There’s no wrong answer… but one’s definitely more “you”.

You’ve probably heard the analogy—Melbourne and Sydney are like two sisters.

Sydney? She’s the pretty one. She’s got the harbour, the beaches, the sunshine, the glam. She’s polished, photogenic, and knows it. A little high-maintenance, maybe, but effortlessly cool. A city of glass towers, rooftop bars, and those picture-perfect harbour views. Think modern sophistication, with just a touch of history sprinkled in.

Melbourne? She’s more low-key, but you’ll find depth in her details. She’s creative, clever, wears a lot of black, and always knows the best coffee spots. With her trams, Victorian terraces, hidden arcades, and cobblestone laneways, Melbourne gives off serious old-European charm—with a sprinkle of hipster and a whole lot of soul.

And here’s the thing—I’ve lived in both for over a decade each, so I’ve seen both cities at their best (and their quirkiest). Let’s break it down.

SYDNEY: THE SHINY POSTCARD CITY

Sydney is what people picture when they think of Australia. The Opera House. Bondi Beach. Harbour sunsets that make you emotional for no reason. It’s bold, big, and beautiful.

Vibe: Glam, outdoorsy, fast-paced, slightly flashy
Weather: Sunny and warm most of the year
Lifestyle: Beach days, rooftop drinks, coastal walks, activewear as daily wear
Transport: Trains, buses, ferries, and yes—traffic
Cost of living: Spicy. Rent and buying both come with jaw-dropping price tags—yes, even for a shoebox.

You’ll love Sydney if you…

• Are a sun-chaser who lives for blue skies

• Want to be near water all the time

• Like a faster-paced lifestyle with a sprinkle of hustle

• Want to Instagram your brunch and your view

  
  

MELBOURNE: THE CULTURED COOL KID

Melbourne isn’t trying to impress you—it just is cool. You’ll find street art in alleyways, hidden bars, local coffee snobs, and people who own so many jackets.

Vibe: Creative, laid-back, a little mysterious
Weather: All four seasons in one day
Lifestyle: Café culture, art galleries, laneway exploring, trams, black clothing
Transport: Trams, trains, and lots of walking
Cost of living: Still expensive, but slightly less so

You’ll love Melbourne if you…

• Are into indie markets, vinyl records, and good coffee

• Prefer chill energy over chaos

• Don’t mind a bit of grey weather

• Like finding a bar that feels like a secret

  
  

Let’s be real—both cities are great for shopping.

Melbourne has fashion-forward laneways, local designers, and warehouse sales that feel like treasure hunts. Sydney’s got the big brands, luxe labels, and beachside boutiques. Whether you're into streetwear, vintage, or luxe—it’s a win either way. (My wardrobe can confirm.)

So… which city wins?

I started my Aussie life in Melbourne, and now I live in Sydney—so I’ve had a solid taste of both sisters. And even though I love the sunshine and coastal lifestyle here in Sydney… I still miss the cold.

Yep, I’m that person with a full cabinet of winter coats, scarves, and knits that don’t get nearly enough action in this weather. Maybe that’s why I adore little towns like Oberon where it actually gets chilly (but that’s a love letter for another blog).

So which city is right for you?

• Want sun, surf, and scenes? Go Sydney.

• Want soul, street, and strong coffee? Hello Melbourne.

  
  

They say some like it hot, some like it cold—and with these two sisters, you really can’t go wrong. Just depends on your vibe. Or your jacket situation.